When You Try to Control Others, Do You Really Get What You Want?

Whenever I ask a client, “Whose behavior can you control?”, I always get the correct answer: “Mine.” Yet, right after she acknowledges that, I often hear how much better her life would be if so-and-so would just do such-and-such. It’s natural for you to look outwardly in order to find solutions to your problems.  In [...]